One day, when you get old, would you like your family to support you or would you like them to care about you?
If you're family supports you, that means they will pay the bills for the old age home, call you the prescribed number of times and visit you on your birthday. But if they care about you, they will visit you more often and not on any set schedule. They will bring the grand kids over and make sure you get an extra helping of marshmallow sweet potatoes (your favorite) at Thanksgiving.
No one wants to be supported, we want to be cared for. So why are so many companies so proud of their "customer support?" You see it all the time on websites...the link in the upper corner that says simply, "support." To most that means giving you the ability to send an email with your question. Support means answering your questions and acting in the prescribed manner. But "care," that's an entirely different standard. Care is human...like the customers.
There is power in words - just as you plainly understood the difference when I asked you if you wanted to be supported or cared for when you get old, so too does that word impact the behavior of the people we hire to support...er...care for...our customers. Firstly, the department itself is usually called, "customer support." It should be called, "customer care." We tell those who work in the department to offer "customer support." We should be telling them to "care for our customers."
We, as customers, can always tell the difference too. A customer support agent who has been told to offer "support" tends to follow a script. They tend to be matter-of-fact about things. And even if the problem is not resolved to your satisfaction, they will actually tell you all the things they've done to help you and that there is nothing more they can do. That is, by all fair metrics, good support.
But customer care agents who have been told to take care of the customer, will talk to you differently. They have more patience. They will go out of their way or even ask one of their colleagues for help if they don't know the answer. There is no script. They don't need one. If you hire someone who likes people and you tell them to take care of other people, there is no special training required...just special words to inspire them to do the right thing...to take care.

My favorite example of loyalty is Harley-Davidson. There are people
who tattoo Harley's logo on their bodies. Some who do don't even own
their product. The decision to do such a thing -- clearly irrational --
has nothing to do with the quality of Harley bikes or their value as a
company. Someone's decision to display that logo on their body is a
symbol of a belief. They identify as independents in a world of
conformity. Members of the rugged open-road.